Creation Of Attraction & The Myth Of Looks

In this part we'll go further and look at two more myths pertaining to your looks and their attraction.

Myth 1 - Women Hone In On Our Flaws

Understand that we know ourselves better than anyone else ever will. We are able to pick out every single flaw there is about ourselves - our big ears, big nose, weak chin, receeding hairline...

No matter what it is, we see it!

And because we see it, we assume everyone else does too. But the fact is, most people aren't very observant, and unless they specifically look for something to criticize you about, they're not going to care about your insecurities, whatever they may be.

A lot of guys try and dismiss their insecurities by calling attention to it, as if to try and "diffuse" whatever it is they feel is ugly about them. But all this does is draw the woman's attention to this insecurity, and only at that point do people notice it.

And insecurity is always UNattractive.

It's important, in every situation, that you always focus on the good stuff about you, instead of your shortcomings, and have the positives outshine the negatives.

Myth 2- Good Looking Guys Have It Easy

This is probably the biggest myth there is - that if a guy is good looking, girls will automatically flock to him.

A very handsome man is going to have issues whether or not he's handsome, and sometimes he'll have a whole different set than you or I. He might have an easier time getting in the door, but in the end he'll have the same problems that most do.

Attraction is all about creating, and amplifying, certain emotions in women, and then having those specific emotions "attached" to you, so you'll be the source of them for her.

If a man matches a woman's physical type, she'll gravitate to him because those features make her feel good. But if the guy is boring, or a jerk, or just not compatible, those feelings will go away.

However, if you take a guy that the woman maybe isn't initially physically attracted to, and then have him make her experience feelings of fun, excitement, and pleasure - she WILL become attracted to him eventually.

This is the fundamental concept of attraction - when you make other people feel good, they will want to be around you.

You don't have to be a good guy to make women feel good! You just need to know how to interact with them.

But the second aspect to this equation is physical attraction.

This is where, in addition to making people feel good, you also turn them on.

Seduction is the next step here.

When you begin to lead a woman down the path of attraction, even if you don't look like Brad Pitt, she's going to begin to see you in a whole new light - despite any of the shortcomings you may think you have.