Were you aware that as many of 22% of men cheat on their girlfriends. Do not think that for a minute that since you are in a Christian, God fearing relationship, that yoou will not have possible problems in your love life. On the contrary, you could have just as many if not more.
As many as 22% of women are cheated on by their loving boyfriends or husbands. That is a pretty high number. On the contrary, only about 12% of women cheat on their men. Go ahead and give yourself a pat on the back ladies, you deserve it. Most of you are faithful Christian women.
Many fellow Christians have the feeling that they will not have thee problems that their non-Christian counterparts will have. This could not be further from the truth. Being in a Christian relationship can make things more complicated if anything. Being a modern Christian you have choices and you can decide how to live your life.
So how do you find out if your boyfriend is a liar and cheat? There are many ways, and we are going to discuss them here. The best place to start is with yourself. How do you feel about this guy, are you in love with him? If you are having problems even understanding your feelings for him, there may be a problem, and a big one at that. Statistics show us that most (not all of course) of the time if you feel your boyfriend is cheating, then he most likely is. Sometimes we have to listen to our gut feeling. After you get in touch with your own feelings and you want to continue the relationship, then you need to find out if he is really cheating or not.
There are a series of questions that you need to ask yourself when confronted with this problem, if you really want to find out the truth of whether he is cheating or not. If you answer yes to any of them, you may have a problem that needs to be looked into further. Has he started to work out a lot when he used to not care? This does not necessarily mean a shift of attention from you, maybe he is just wanting to look and feel good, so you need to be careful how you answer this question. you need to put it in context. He is spiritually and emotionally distant. Did he used to go to church with you every Sunday but now tries to find excuses not to? All of these are important signs to look for.
So now you are convinced that you have a cheating boyfriend, what do you do now? The first thing you need to do is get on your knees and pray about it. You really need to start praying about the situation before it gets worse. Confront him with your feelings, and realize that if God wants you in the relationship it will work out, if not, God has other plans and paths for you life. Keep your head up, everything is in God's will and it shall be done.
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