Attracting A Woman

Almost any guy is going to want to know - how do I attract women?

We're not all so lucky to have genes like a male model. Most are average or below average in the looks category. And even the good looking guys can have trouble attracting women!

So what does that mean for all of us who want to get a woman all hot-and-bothered? Well, the logical conclusion is this:

Attraction cannot depend on what you look like!

Obsessing over your looks (or lack of them) is a sure-fire way to take yourself out of the attraction game before things have even gotten started. Understand that you need to take care of yourself and tailor your appearance as well as you possibly can. But short of extensive and painful plastic surgery, you can't change what you look like.

So if you can't change it - deal with it!

Luckily, there's more to attraction than just your physical features. Accept that you look like the way you are, and deal with the things you CAN change, and actually have control over.

See, the "attraction equation" is more than just about being a good looking guy. It's about your attitude, your intellect, and your social skills and status.

1. Attitude Is Everything

Having the right attitude is essential to generating attraction. Confidence is key, here. Being secure in who you are and what you're after is a great way to show people that you're someone they will want to meet and hang out with.

And with the right attitude, your body language and non-verbal communication will naturally broadcast to those around you that you are an attractive person.

2. Try having intelligent conversations

It's a given that attraction is rooted in conversation. Your words will allow a woman to move towards the type of emotions you want, and will allow you to captivate her.

You can do this two ways. The first is to ask questions, and show interest in her replies. The second is to tell stories.

Stories are the best way to make people experience emotion. Everyone loves stories, and if you have good ones to tell, people will love talking to you.

3. Master Your Social Skills

Being attractive is about interacting with people in the right way. You need to be fun, entertaining, and a good conversationalist.

You also have to know what's appropriate in certain social situations. Being loud and boisterous at a fancy dinner party may not be a good thing to do. Always be aware of the environment you're in and act accordingly.

Be laid back, and try not to take things too seriously. Getting insulted or frustrated when things aren't going as you planned is a sure fire way to alienate the people you're trying to attract. Allow yourself room to mess up if necessary, and keep from being insulting or rude.

But most of all - have fun! The best way to be social and attract people to you is to have a good time. People love having a good time! In fact, they will seek you out if you can be the source of their fun.

4. Cultivate A High Social Status

More than anything else, having a high social status will attract more people to you than you know what to do with. And social status doesn't have to have anything to do with how much money you make or how good looking you are. In fact, social status can be completely manufactured!

By being the life of the party, or dominating the conversation, you can show people you're someone who demands attention. By being funny or witty, intelligent, commanding, and confident, people will naturally defer to you.

If you can pull this off, you'll be able to parlay it into a position of authority amongst your peers. And over time, people will see this happening consistently, and your social status will grow higher.

When you combine these four factors, you can powerfully attract any woman you choose. (And the best part is - none of it depends on your looks!)